The Phoenix Tour

Rising from the ashes, Tasmania on a motorcycle.


The Phoenix Tour

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I’m off on an adventure.

To find myself and rise from the ashes…

I dedicate this tour of discovery to my incredible son and daughter.

They fought to hold my head above the water when I was drowning in grief and was ready to give into the darkness. They shored me up when I was certain my foundations were crumbling into dust. They patiently listened when I had nothing new to say but needed to say it anyway, when I raged against the injustice and pain. They reassured me that I was worthy of being on this planet.

They firmly but gently let me know when it was time to give up fighting a one-sided battle. A battle where the other side wasn’t even fighting….

And… to my family and friends who rallied around me when I was ready to let them into my despair. Who enveloped me in their love and lent me their strength when I felt weak and helpless.

Life inevitably goes on, even when it changes direction on you without your consent. When things happen that you did not choose, things that you never would have chosen. When the silence seems deafening from some who you thought were friends but who disappeared like ghosts when you needed them most.

When it just doesn’t seem fair.

Now it’s time for me to reinvent Deb. To find my joy again.

And, I reckon Tasmania is as good a place as any to start.

Solo, just me and my motorbike, surrounded by natural beauty, history and some adventure.

I will try and post here regularly. I hope my tech works and I can get some good footage and photos.

Come along with me if you like.

Or don’t.

Your choice 😊

This time, for the first time in a very long time, it’s about me….

10 responses to “The Phoenix Tour”

  1. David and Leanne Avatar
    David and Leanne

    Incredible words Deb

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    1. debbiejane69 Avatar

      Thank you.

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  2. Sharon Limon Avatar
    Sharon Limon

    Life definitely sends us unfair curve balls, what a brilliant way to tackle them, enjoy finding you

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    1. debbiejane69 Avatar

      It sure does. You would know better than most, Sharon. Love to you.

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  3. Fleur Butt Avatar
    Fleur Butt

    You got this Deb

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    1. debbiejane69 Avatar

      I hope so 😉 Thank you, Fleur.

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  4. 9trm7frqhf Avatar
    9trm7frqhf

    Love what you’ve written Deb. It’s not easy to be raw and honest to the world. Life can be such a shitball sometimes. I’m so sorry your hand has been forced to take this journey – the emotional one that is. The Tassie journey is all you baby! The Phoenix Tour is a perfect name for what you’re doing. You absolutely will rise out of this with all the strength and resilience you have always had but maybe had forgotten was there all along. Plus the added freedom to merge into any new sense of self that feels right for you. Reinvent, replenish and renew Sista! Whatever version of Deb that emerges , I’ll love and respect every bit – always. And I’ll be trudging along by your side, or probably lagging behind trying to keep up with you! You’ve got this Deb. Enjoy the adventure! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    1. debbiejane69 Avatar

      I couldn’t think of anyone I would rather have trudging with me. Thank you, my dear friend

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  5. Anna Sullivan Avatar
    Anna Sullivan

    Soz Deb – trying to work out your blog technology! That was from me. Anna ❤️🙏

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  6. Pam Beattie Avatar
    Pam Beattie

    You have got this my beautiful friend. He has nothing now, it’s as simple as that. I am always here if you need.

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